Growing years

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"Who is this old man?Is he your grandpa?He looks smart.But, he looks intelligent.
Where did you loose the last factor down the line?"


"Enough man.This is not my grandpa."


"Then?"


"It is Sigmund Freud."


"You mean ,your friend's grandpa?"


"No.He is the Father of Psychoanalysis."


"What a wierd name to have.Psychoanalysis.Where does this person live?"


"Hey,it's not a person.It's a medical term."


"I see.
They are big words that go over my head.Be more simple."


"Okay.Okay.He is the person who gave us the theory of five stages of development in every person's life."


"What five stages?I want to know.
But, please make it short and simple.I am not a medical freak."


"All right.Here are the five stages:

1.The oral stage:

This is in the first two years of life. Mouth is the main pleasure  zone. Now,greatest source of pleasure is sucking or putting objects into mouth.














2.The anal stage:

This is from two to three years. The anus becomes the 
main source of pleasure. Toilet-training is the major issue now.

3.The phallic stage:

This is from ages three to six. Self-manipulation of the genitals gives max. pleasure.

4.The latency stage:
This stage is from ages six to twelve. Now, sexual motivation is lost and a child gets busy developing personal skills

5.The genital stage:
It occurs after puberty and extends into adulthood.Now, the deepest feelings of pleasure come from sexual relationships with other adults.

Essence:

Development places conflicts for a person at every stage, that must be resolved then and there.

If these conflicts are left unresolved, there will be dramatic effects influencing an individual’s behavior throughout his/her life."


"Hey, that was short and hot.I have to leave now.Catch you later.Bye"